APPLE never falls FAR from the TREE.
"Apple never falls far from the TREE"
Seeing this title there will be a lot of questions to your mind... I know.
What the stuff she is going to say, Have she gone crazy putting such titles. Although many of you might be excited to know more of it.....
The thing is that I want to ask you the same question... does apple fall far from the tree?!
The tree who struggled a lot to give a birth to the leaves,
The tree who fights with sunlight at the afternoon,
The tree who protected its flower and fruits from stormy weather,
The tree who withstand in that cyclone,
The tree who pushed his roots one more step to get water,
The tree who was alone when he became old,
The tree who lost his strength day by day after certain age,
Do you really think the fruit when ready to eat will fall down far away from the tree who gave birth to him?!
I know the answer is NO.
You will say that fruit doesn't do that... he loves to be there in the shade of the tree till someone is not ready to eat it.
You are true.
And if noticed it will never go far from tree's shadow even.
I also want to convey the same message.....
With a sad note, I came to know that, India which is famous for its rich culture of respect and unity has so many old age homes. This thing touched many youths, me as well, but can't change the past. Although future is in our hands....
As Apple never falls far from the tree even in any situation we also have to promise ourselves that whatever we do in our life, whatever success we have in our hands, how rich we are, in whichever situations we are, we will NEVER EVER leave the hands of our parents.
The PARENTS who struggle their whole life like that tree to Make you the sweetest fruit by protecting in every step.
The PARENTS who sacrificed his life like that tree to give you the happiness.
I therefore request you not to leave the hands which made you walk by supporting your small steps. Just try to be their support when they require you the most.
Nice thought....
ReplyDeleteBut what if few are not understanding it by just talking or explaining them?
Do u have any alternative of it?
First of all whoever you are, thank u so much for spending your precious time to read out this blog.
ReplyDeletewhat I think is every problem has its solutions. It is just we have to take step forward to look up for that.
When I came up with the problem I tried to reach out to the people whom I know so that there can be some impact or link which could stop it.
But if you ask for a solution at a base level, we have to make both the parties understand their importance. This all problem happens due to generation gap, miscommunications, not understanding each other's prospective... and so on.
So the best part is to make feel both the party (the parent & the child) understand their importance, it can be stopped further to increase these shelters. Talking about current shelter, of course we can't change them. What my thinking is,we should do something which make them feel good. Just for your information, I have seen orphanages also. So both( old people & these orphan kids) are craving for love and care.. so, my thinking in long run is to make these both generations together which ultimately comes out to best mental piece for both. Although, it might seem u a hypothetical situation but it can be done slowly n gradually. For eg: we get permission from both shelter authorities to conduct a meet for them for just an hour or so.. it would give them a great smile for at least a week.
Once again, as I mentioned in my profile it is my perceptions of thinking. You might have yours. And I really respect it.
Thank you once again to step up for this question.
If you have any extra ordinary thing which we could help out, pls share it.
Thank & Regards
#ACHIEVEMENTS ARISEN
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Deletei guess this may be a solution............
But what can you do for those whose children don't know how their parents made them so capable and then when they get a girl after wedding with her...
on her opinion that children sends their parents to old age homes......
Do you have a solution for the today's generation girls who are getting married and not considering their in laws as her own parents........
and what about those idiots who listens to their wives and hurt their parents?
see, coming to your girl problem, it is not that it happen after marriage only. also, it is always two side. a clap can't make noise with one hand. sometimes it happened that parents are very rigid to there thinking and on the other hand children are very open minded. and this problem is stated as generation gap.
Deleteso both of them needs to understand. also, there are many girls who really don't wanted to be separate from their in-laws and the boy himself insisting. so this is something where everyone has to think from each other perceptions...
and, explaining them their importance of how they become capable and all that... we can have committees at old age home itself which have meetings with the children not as an counselor as that might have negative impact... but as an interaction.. that how they reached at this stage, what was their parents role, what sacrifices were made by them, etc... and one of the best question asked in that session is will they be happy when their children do this to them. it will have some impact in their mind which might change some situation.
feel free if you have any more questions if i have answers i will definitely try to explain my perceptions..
thanking you for taking such great interest in this blog.
#ACHIEVEMENTS ARISEN.
Your thoughts are amazing and the way you presented it is appreciating. We all are busy with our daily life that we willingly or unwillingly ignore important things. As we are growing up we often forget our parents are getting old. Your thoughts touched my heart. I understood your point and will make sure that I convey this to as many people as I can.
ReplyDeleteWill be waiting for your next post.
ALL THE BEST till then.
thank you so much for reading this.
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