Is the mother only one who sacrifices.......

Hello guys!!! As we all know our Indian cricket team, has taken a special initiative and are wearing t-shirt bearing their respective mother’s name instead of their own. Although this initiative is a part of a new campaign started by ‘star India’ highlighting the role of the mothers in our lives.

Many poets, writers and speakers talks, writes, speak about MOTHER and their life, their sacrifices etc. These people exemplify our father as an ANGRY MAN who is in the negative role in the life. Till date very few or none has written good about father as that of mother. But let me evoke you one thing:

We always remember our mother as she complete our entire exigency. We always demand our things in front of her. But we have hardly known how all our exigencies are completed by her. It is because of our Father. Mother has to just put that stuff in front of our father in a proper and convincing manner that’s all….. But it is only our father who knows how our needs will be fulfilled or whether it is possible for him to fulfill the same.

You know friends!!! We always see our father as a fighter, as a warrior, who can combat all the difficult situation and problem. Mother can still cry and throws out all her pain in front of us but we have never seen our father crying, he cries at one side of the bed under the cushion.

He use to overtime on Sundays to just fulfill our so called needs and demand. When he falls sick he never directly goes to hospital; actually he is not afraid of the disease that had caused but he is afraid that if doctor suggest him to take rest for whole fifteen to twenty days then the source of income will decrease that cause a lot of trouble to the family members.

If his son or daughter studying out of the town in the big city then at regular interval, whether it is possible or not, he use to send money in their bank accounts without any question.

And you know guys, when our results comes we first try to  find our mother as she use to praise us, bless us and shows all her love towards us but it is our father who confidentially strew the sweet boxes to our relatives and friends.

I am staying in a hostel since 8^th standard. My father use to call me daily, without fail. When I was small in the initial stage of my hostel life I use to talk with him the whole day story; what happen from the day starts till I am talking with. Later as I grew up I stopped giving whole description. Still he use to call me daily but now our conversation is hardly of one-two minutes. It is:

He: hello beta!!! How are you?

I: hello papa!! I am fine. How are you?

He: I am fine. All goes well ?

I: yes, papa.

He: do you have your dinner? What did you eat?

I: yes, I had it. [and tell whatever I ate for my dinner]

He: good then, anything else you want to tell?

I: no papa, bbye

He: ok, bye beta…. Take care.

That’s all. We use to have the same conversation daily. Not anything more, not anything less.

Once I wonder why does he call me if he wants to know, the same daily stuff??? So I asked him the same question. He replied me:

Beta!! The question I asked use that have you had your dinner is because if you have had it than I can also eat with a relief. I only have my dinner after knowing that you have had the same.

And the question I ask you that all goes well is because you feel that I am always there for you; if you have any difficulty or problem that you can’t combat or you need my help you can easily let me know.

I know friends till here you have find your own story with your father. 

   

At last want to apprise you one thing: our mother sacrifices her dreams and ambition for us but our father sacrifices his whole life to give us the better and the best one.

After reading this, if you feel emotional just go and hug your father if he is around you!!!!!!

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